Lulua
15-12-2001, 00:57
Assalaamu alaikum.
The following was sent to me by a caring sister thru email. I have seen this before, but it only served as a reminder to me. Perhaps it shall be of some help to others, inshaAllah.
Lulua.
================================================== ===============Assalaam u alaykum wr wb
An ancient Arab woman advised her daugher on her wedding day:
O my daugher! you are leaving the home in which you were brought up to a house unknown to you and to a companion unfamilar to you. Be a floor to him, he will be a roof to you; be a soft seat to him, he will be a pillar for you; and be like a slave girl to him, he will be like a slave boy to you. Avoid inopportune behavior, lest he should be bored with you; and be not aloof lest he should become indifferent to you. If he approaches you, come running to him; and if he turns away, do not impose yourself upon him. Take care of his nose, his eye and his ear. Let him not smell except a good odor from you; let his eye not see you except in an agreeable appearance; and let him hear nothing from you except nice, fine words.
May Allah swt have mercy and forgive us all. Ameen.
The following was sent to me by a caring sister thru email. I have seen this before, but it only served as a reminder to me. Perhaps it shall be of some help to others, inshaAllah.
Lulua.
================================================== ===============Assalaam u alaykum wr wb
An ancient Arab woman advised her daugher on her wedding day:
O my daugher! you are leaving the home in which you were brought up to a house unknown to you and to a companion unfamilar to you. Be a floor to him, he will be a roof to you; be a soft seat to him, he will be a pillar for you; and be like a slave girl to him, he will be like a slave boy to you. Avoid inopportune behavior, lest he should be bored with you; and be not aloof lest he should become indifferent to you. If he approaches you, come running to him; and if he turns away, do not impose yourself upon him. Take care of his nose, his eye and his ear. Let him not smell except a good odor from you; let his eye not see you except in an agreeable appearance; and let him hear nothing from you except nice, fine words.
May Allah swt have mercy and forgive us all. Ameen.