I Desperately need advice

[Stevanh]

I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.

I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up.
She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them".
I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi?
I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep downI just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her.
I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a veiw of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

So what should I do? Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Halfords and try to repair it myself?

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[Tayeb]

Dear Stevanh:

In Islam we are prohibited in having girlfriends or boyfriends.

Ma'a-salaama,

[lubna]

I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.

It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

So what should I do? Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Halfords and try to repair it myself?

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hello stevanh
welcome to our site, may your stay be a beneficial one for you and us all Ameen.
nice to see another member from scotland.

as for the advice i would not call it life changing but CAR changing may be...:)

i beleive all men should be DIY type, so would advise you to buy some stuff from halfords and D o I t Y ourself.
plus it will be cheap too....:)

and my advice is free of charge ....:) what more can you ask....

peace
lubna

[NonMuslimGirl]

Dear Stevanh:

In Islam we are prohibited in having girlfriends or boyfriends.

Ma'a-salaama,


Tayeb

You did get it was a joke. Didn't you? :confused:
(You "sound" so serious)

[Tayeb]

Hello NonMuslimGirl,

We haven't seen you here for a while. Welcome back.

Of course I understook it was a joke. I just commented that in Islam a boy cannot a gilfriend and vice-versa.

Stevenah kept on bringing jokes that didn't conform to Islamic nature of this site, including on alcoholic drinks and things which were said of sexist nature. Mine was a reaction to a pattern.

Ma'a-salaama,

[NonMuslimGirl]

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Oh! I didn't know that. Sorry!