Dos and Donts of Sexual Life

[ludbaredaq]

Asalam..

I would be getting married pretty soon and I have a few questions about the sexuality issues.

1. Is it permitted for on to see his wives private parts. Which are the areas he can see and which are those he cannot.
2. Is it prohibited to use condoms??
3.Is anal sex allowed?
4.Any other issues that one may feel relevant is appreciated.

Sorry if this looks bad. But I guess there is no way to know without asking.

[tbahrain]

w3s, br

Congratulation on your soon to be marriage.

Perhaps this link would be of help to you.

http://www.witness-pioneer.org/vil/Books/Q_LP/ch3s3pre.htm

tbahrain

[peacepro]

Plz Consult A Good Aalima

[sipraomer]

Asalam..

I would be getting married pretty soon and I have a few questions about the sexuality issues.

1. Is it permitted for on to see his wives private parts. Which are the areas he can see and which are those he cannot.
2. Is it prohibited to use condoms??
3.Is anal sex allowed?
4.Any other issues that one may feel relevant is appreciated.

Sorry if this looks bad. But I guess there is no way to know without asking.

Some scholars say it is not permitted to see one's spouse private parts. As there is a hadith concerning this matter
The Hadith reported by Ahmad from Aisha ( may Allaah be pleased with her) that she said: "I never looked at the Prophet's private parts and never saw them". This Hadith is weak. according to this site

http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/Fatwa/ShowFatwa.php?Option=FatwaId&lang=E&Id=83392

Spouses can see each others private parts as is mentioned in the following hadith.

It is reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim from a sound Hadith that the Prophet used to make Ghusl (ceremonial washing) with some of his wives from the same receptacle. Aisha ( may Allaah be pleased with her) said: "I used to make Ghusl, me and the Prophet using the same receptacle". In another narration she said: "Our hands would cross in that receptacle and we would touch each other". .

2. Condoms, Child Birth Control medication are strictly prohibited. Although scholars agree that a husband can take out his penis before ejaculation with the permission of his wife.

3. Anal sex and oral sex is both haram in Islam. Although natural or vaginal sex can be done in any position.

Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth (have sexual relations with your wives in any manner as long as it is in the vagina and not in the anus), when or how you will, and send (good deeds, or ask Allâh to bestow upon you pious offspring) before you for your ownselves. And fear Allâh, and know that you are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give good tidings to the believers (O Muhammad ). (Al-Baqarah 2:223)

[blm2007]

I am just going to give straight forward answers as per your queries:

1.Is it permitted for on to see his wives private parts. Which are the areas he can see and which are those he cannot.

Ans: Some Scholars have said that in some Hadiths it's mentioned that the private parts can't be seen when on the other hand some have also said that it is permissible if both the partners agree to see.

2.Is it prohibited to use condoms?

Ans: Child is a gift from Allah.Anyone trying to stop the birth of a baby using condoms or other stuffs is strictly prohibited in Islam.A man can easily bring out his penis before he feels ejaculating with the permission of his wife.So if that happens,then why to use any condom?

3.Is anal sex allowed?

Ans: In no way it is allowed.It is totally Haram.

Hope that helps.
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