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Old 01-04-2005, 20:47
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'Act gently with the women' - Shaykh Abu Muhammad al-Maqdisi

From the fruits of Jihād - a balanced view





Eight: Act Gently With the Women





[Author: Abū Muhammad al-Maqdisī]



Translation: At-Tibyān Publications


Anyone who knows the criminal reality of disbelief today with the indecency and degeneracy of the disbelievers of our time, and who is concerned with preserving the honour of Muslim women, will not rush to involve Muslim women unnecessarily in acts of fighting, Jihād, organization, or other such tasks that may be performed by the men.



Despite being non-Muslims, the disbelievers of the past were known to have a sense of honour and chivalry; when the lowest of Allāh’s creatures rushed to the house of Prophet Lūt (peace be upon him) out of desire for his guests, Prophet Lūt said to them,“O my people! Here are my daughters, they are purer for you”, [1]they replied, “Surely you know that we have no right to your daughters!” [2] So despite the indecency and filth they practiced they still respected the rights of his daughters, either because they were the daughters of a man from their people, or because they knew that his daughters were not lawful for them, as they themselves were disbelievers. Even though Lūt had perhaps only offered his daughters to divert his people from his guests - or for any another reason - what is important is that despite the transgression, wrongdoings and debasement of his people, they did not aggress against his daughters and they respected their rights, for they knew they had no right to them.



Similarly, when the polytheists of Quraysh plotted and conspired against the Prophet to kill, imprison, or expel him from his home, one of their ignorant men proposed that they break into his house. Abū Jahl, the leader of the disbelievers, strongly rejected and condemned this, saying, “Do you want the Arabs to reproach us for alarming the daughters of Muhammad?”



One of their poets would say,



And I lower my eyes if my neighbour appears to me

Until my neighbour in her abode is concealed



and another would say,



If the winds bent the house of my neighbour,

I became occupied until the house concealed its side.



But the disbelievers of our time do not respect the ties of kinship or covenant with the believers, and they would like for illegal sexual intercourse to be propagated among those who believe.[3] They have grown accustomed to accusing innocent chaste women of illegal intercourse, and slandering the honour of the believing men and women. Thus, every Muslim should protect the Muslim women from the filth of these polytheists; so they should not grant the disbelievers an avenue by which to reach them by involving them in matters for which the men can suffice, and in which the enemies of Allāh may gain power over them.



There are many illustrations of this in our times, some of which are displayed at the forefront of demonstrations and conflicts with organizations. This is done by many mislead groups do, who allow the people to thereby witness the enemies of Allāh hitting the Muslim women with sticks and chasing them with dogs, and some of them would alert the police but be exposed to the most obscene replies and vulgar insults. They are truly an indecent people who have neither shame nor sense of honour.



Sometimes, the women are entrusted with organizational jobs, or some equipment, weapons or funds are hidden in their keeping. When this is discovered, the women will be forcibly interrogated and overpowered by indecent, vile individuals who will humiliate them, or be impudent towards them and insult them in a manner unacceptable to any Muslim or free man for the insult to his honour - this is if matters do not extent to levels among the lowest and most despised of the behaviours of the enemies of Allāh. The matter may then be referred to their non-Muslim courts, and pictures of the Muslim women will be broadcast on their televisions and on the pages of their newspapers, and they also may be thrown into their dirty prisons alongside prostitutes and other disreputable women.



No rational Muslim who knows the obscenity and dirtiness of the enemies of Allāh should charge up the daughters of the Muslims with empty zeal so that he may lead them to slippery ground that will land them in the claws of these despicable villains, as long as the men are able to dispense of their help. It is not permissible to evidence the permissibility of this with the calamities that Allāh has decreed for some Muslim woman, for there is a difference between the enemies of Allāh overpowering a woman simply for being a Muslim - as occurred to some of the weak and oppressed early Muslim women, and as occurs to women like them in every era, who find none to protect or help them - and between the disorderliness of the callers to Islām or Mujāhidīn enabling the enemies of Allāh to overpower a woman, and furnishing them with justifications and warrants to remove their veils and involve them in acts with reprehensible consequences. Rather, the rational Muslim who desires to protect his women must refrain from even making mention of them before the enemies of Allāh in interrogations and similar situations, and he must not charge or entrust them with actions that may lead to an interrogation. This is so that the disbelievers will have no chance to pursue, follow or interrogate them - let alone insult and arrest them - for as has been mentioned, they are debased ignobles who cannot be trusted with honour, or anything else.



In summary: Involving Muslim women in fruitless actions or interrogations, or entrusting them tasks that may be performed by men, is a matter that no rational, free Muslim can relish, especially in a time of weakness where the Muslims have neither state nor land to seek shelter in, protect them and defend their honour.



If there is to be an Islamic state that mobilizes colossal troops to revenge the screams of a Muslim woman in any corner of the earth, then the Muslim women must protected from such slippery ground, and it is better to occupy them in fields purely connected to the discipline and da‘wah of women. If the honour of a Muslim woman is attacked, then it is obligatory for the Mujāhidīn to respond in a harsh and painful manner that will scare off future offenders, and remain as a distinct deterrent for all those whose souls beg them to the same.



The Mujāhidīn should always remember - as should their enemies - that Ka‘b ibn al-Ashraf was included under a covenant that protected his blood, but the Messenger of Allāh allowed his blood to be shed. A young man from among the supporters of this religion killed him, and [the Muslims] raised his head on their swords for his allusion to the love of some Muslim women.



And finally, they should also remember that the Muslim’s creed and religion dictates that that whoever dies defending his honour is a martyr.



Thus was narrated by the truthful one, who is believed. May the prayers and peace of Allāh be upon him.




[1] Translator’s note: Hūd, verse 78


[2] Translator’s note: Hūd, verse 79


[3] Translator’s note: See al-Tawbah, verse 8 and al-Nūr, verse 19



(This is an excerpted chapter, from a forthcoming Tibyān Publication: Min Thamrāt al-Jihād by Shaykh Abū Muhammad al-Maqdisi)

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Old 03-04-2005, 20:14
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The key here is to act gently with everyone, regardless man, woman, child everyone wants to be treated well.

Gender is no excuse for bad behavior.

May Allah nurture and guide everyone towards better coping skills and ways of dealing with anger, disappointment and sorrow.

All of us deserve being treated well regardless of race, religion, gender etc..
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Old 04-04-2005, 10:02
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Dear Anne-Marie:

I agree fully with you, but the article is to show how Islam thinks of being gentle particularly with women, as they are the key for a safe and clean society. The author is using a message for those that don't know what Islam says.

Islam is all encompassing, children, women, men, the healthy and the unhealthy, all have a role to play.

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Old 06-04-2005, 04:16
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Dear Tayeb

Salam Alikoam (I always have trouble spelling this forgive me)

I am beginning to realize I have judged Islam some what unfairly or at least some of the people.

It is difficult sometimes when we see of hear of injustice not to fall pray to labeling the whole of the people.

Thank you for the pleasure of participating in this forum, I am learning a great deal about Islam and Myself.

Peace be with you also

Anne Marie Elderkin-Habibi
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Old 09-04-2005, 10:31
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Assalaamu alaikum ya muslimeen.

Greetings and good day to all.

Anne...as Br. Tayeb has mentioned...that the article is particularly directed to pointing out to all the way that Islam favors the womenfolk, and in fact protects them and enjoins on it's adherants to treat the women with gentleness and kindness. In opposition to many non-muslim claims of how Islam is hard on the women.

I have noticed a great change in your approach to us here, indicating that you are becoming more enlightened about the true message of Islam.

As I have mentioned many times in the past...to you as well as to others who have crossed our paths here...that I request that you do not judge islam or come to know islam by what you see of muslims.

Remember that muslims are human beings, and quite capable and liable to making many mistakes thru their lives. They are not indeed the true and exact picture of Islam, even tho they may believe themselves to be.

That does not of course mean that all of the muslism are off track. It is merely a safety precaution for all to learn Islam thru the sources, and not necessarily from humans themselves, who are apt to making mistakes and hence misrepresent Islam.

The sourcse are: the Quran, and the sunnah (recorded ahadith and traditions of the prophet mohammed).

You may wonder why we direct you to look at Mohammed's life, since he was of course a human, and we have clearly admitted to our own human indeficciencies. That is because Mohammed(SAAW) was inspired, and we have been directed even directly from Allah in the Quran, that in the messenger of Allah (i.e. Mohammed)...ye have an excellent exempler. Hence, we look to him (saaw) for the excellent example to follow.

As well, he (saaw) was recorded by his own contemporaries and companions to be the living, breathing, walking form of the Quran. (i.e. ...his own life and practices and traditions were living examples of the teachings contained within the Quran).

I can vouch for those here with whom you have frequent discussions, that they are all highly commended for their efforts to present Islam in it's true light. However, do not necessarily take me on my word for that. Do your own research...but I am sure that you will find what we say here is based from the sources (Quran & sunnah) of the teachings of Islam.

I am sorry that you were evidently lead astray by some strayful muslims in the past.

I too have had similar experience, AnneMarie. To the point where when I eventually met the man who introduced me truthfully to Islam, I at first rejected him based upon my formed opinions of islam and muslims from non-practicing and non-faithful muslims I had met before him. I had been literally turned off from Islam before I was properly introduced to it. It took me 2 years of searching thru the Quran, and much soul-searching myself...to finally turn to Islam myself.

And so, dear Anne....I strongly and sincerely suggest to you to read from the sources for yourself. And when and if you have questions, please do feel free to raise them here...we will do our best to help you.

BTW...have you ever ready my post on my own experience of how & why I became a muslim? Not suggesting this to you out of any arrogance...may Allah protect me from that!! Just suggesting that you may see some similarities there, and may see some suggestions of a way for yourself as well.

Do take a look. You can find it at: http://www.myiwc.com/forums/showthre...ighlight=Story

Lulua.
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Old 09-04-2005, 21:01
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Lulua I will take a look over your story of arriving at Islam.

I thank you for your excellent post.

Anne Marie
 


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